Capability or whatever is a moving relational field and it shifts depending on:

context: you’re do awesome in one setting, completely lost in another
culture: what counts changes from country to country, even house to house
power: those who define what is usually benefit from how it’s defined
language: if someone can’t express something in a way we understand, we dismiss it even if it actually makes sense or even helpful

we all gatekeep without realizing it
and fragments don’t show the whole