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misty merakicat possibly - Misty Relos

Possibly

How could I have possiblyBeing who I amJust a mist floating aroundFall in loveAnd also be lovedBy someone so wonderfulBy someone so vastHow could I have possiblyMade your eyes look my wayAnd made your soul trembleJust as you did mineHow could I have possiblyFelt so much loveAnd so much joyHow could I have possiblyPossibly

pattern1 merakicat - Misty Relos

pattern

I see the pattern.I name the pattern.I step outside the pattern.Their failures are not my shame to carry.Their absence is not my flaw.I am free to build with those who stay.

feedback

The way systems ask for feedbackis geared towards metrics and noise. They forget about real growth. Real feedback is alive.It has timing.It has feeling.It has truth.You don’t just fill in a blank.You see a moment.And when it’s real, you speak.That’s the kind of feedback that lands. Feedback is not counted.Feedback is to connect.That is the only kind of feedback that actually makes a difference.

wisdom #4

Wisdom is about knowing your thingsKnowing the systems you’re part ofyour car, your body, your schedule, your peopleKnowing your thresholdsKnowing the processIt’s about recognizing the signals earlyand acting while you still have options.Not scrambling after everything has already started to break

misty relos merakicat lifewithyouinit - Misty Relos

love

Life with you in itIs more than I ever imaginedIt’s like I can breathe and love againLove with you in itIs more than I ever yearned forIt’s like I can just be myself and live again

life laugh love lol

Life on love — the foundation. How we live when love is holding us. Love on life — the lens. How we love when we are awake and present in the world. Laugh on love — joy born inside connection. Laugh on life — survival. The humor that keeps us breathing. Love on laugh — affection through play. Touch through joy. Life on laugh — meaning through lightness. Love […]

truth #4

I made hard decisions in my lifewith my kids always in mind. I wasn’t running toward pleasure.I was walking away from harm.From an environment full of tension, reactivity, and unspoken emotional bruises.From anger that spilled into the corners of my children’s nervous systems.From cycles I swore I wouldn’t pass down. And when I left, I didn’t even leave for myself. I left so they wouldn’t carry it. BUT I […]

judgment

People love to judge from the outsidelike they’re watching a showwith no context, no history,just snap conclusionsfrom the safety of their own detachment. They don’t sit with the cost of the choices.They don’t feel the weight you carry.They just want to feel like they “know better.” But they don’t know what it’s liketo live inside your decisions.They don’t know what it took for youto walk away from that situation.They […]

feel merakicat - Misty Relos

feel

like LECHE KA mundojust feel metrust melet’s love each other through the fear like ano ba??i don’t want to fight you.i want to hold you.i want to wrap my armsaround the ache and say: okay ka langyou don’t have to pretend anymorejust feel meand you’ll see how.

misty relos merakicat love ions k - Misty Relos

suffering and containment

Suffering isn’t always necessary. Not in the way we’ve been taught.Sometimes, it just needs to be. The question might not be “is it necessary?”Maybe what’s needed is space.Witnessing.No shoulds, no goals.Just truth held together. It hurts this much to feel this muchBecause we are alive.We love with our whole being.We remain open, even when others do not. Containment isn’t always necessary. But it is enforced.Without regard for safety and […]

pain

Sometimes even the people who want to help get stuck. Because the structures we live inthe emotional frameworksthe social scriptsthe invisible permission slips we think we needare so deep that even good people get tangled in them. They want to helpbut they do nothing. Suddenly they’re offering concern like a checklistinstead of actually understandingIt feels like rejection, disregard, and distance. Like you reached out and got caught on the […]

real merakicat - Misty Relos

real

Come to me as you areShow me the real youUnderneath all the layersof falsehoods they built around you Let me love you exactly as you areLet me embrace all the wounds and scarsLet me laugh with you through all the tearsLet me carry the weight you’ve feared Let me love you so muchthat it gives you strength to growin the direction you chooseand yours alone.